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There may be financial help available, in North Carolina, to relatives who have opened their home and hearts to children of family members that have been removed by CPS.

If DSS has placed a child into your home, in a Kinship placement or if you have been made a legal guardian or given legal custody of a child, you may be able to apply for, and receive financial assistance through Work First.

Most applicants that qualify for Work First Family Assistance also qualify for Medicaid, this includes you, and any other eligible family members. You may also qualify to receive help with child care expenses.
 

Continue reading on Examiner.com “Child only” Work First benefits may help support child in Kinship care – Winston-Salem CPS | Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/cps-in-winstonsalem/child-only-work-first-payment-may-help-support-child-kinship-care#ixzz1fapKICSU

Out of prison, Franklin woman fails to regain custody of kids (GOOD!!)

 

http://www.thedailyjournal.com/article/20091215/NEWS01/912150314

By TIM ZATZARINY Jr.

Staff Writer

TRENTON — A former Franklin woman who was charged in the death of her adopted 5-year-old son has lost an attempt to regain parental rights involving two other children she and her husband had adopted.

A state Appellate Court panel Monday rejected the request by Heather Lindorff.

Lindorff was convicted in 2003 of endangering the welfare of a child in the December 2001 death of her adopted son Jacob, 5, inside their Franklin home.

Jacob was one of six Russian children whom Lindorff and her husband, James, had adopted.

An autopsy determined Jacob died from blunt trauma to the head, causing bleeding on the brain. His body showed other signs of physical abuse, authorities said.

Heather Lindorff, now 45, was sentenced to six years in state prison. She was released this year on Nov. 16, according to the state Department of Corrections.

In December 2008, Heather Lindorff filed an appeal alleging there was a lack of fact finding before the state Division of Youth and Family Services moved to take away her parental rights following allegations in 2006 that the couple continued abusing their adopted children.

At the time, the Lindorffs had limited visitation with the children, who were in foster care, and Heather Lindorff was free on bail pending an appeal of her conviction.

In a decision released Monday, a three-judge appellate panel determined Heather Lindorff’s appeal regarding her parental rights was moot because she had voluntarily surrendered them during a July 2009 court proceeding so the boys’ current foster family could adopt them.

James Lindorff, 60, was convicted of child neglect in the death of Jacob. He was sentenced to probation and community service.

In September 2007, James Lindorff was charged in Salem County with conspiracy to commit murder in connection with a plot to kill a witness against him in the 2006 abuse case.

He is serving a seven-year state prison sentence on the conspiracy charge.

 

 

Mom pleads no contest in quadriplegic girl’s death

 

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5iX3IKWT5t9haQq7vk7pkPNDlwCuQD9CCPN880

By ED WHITE (AP)

DETROIT — A Flint woman accused of starving her adopted quadriplegic daughter to death and stashing the body in a storage unit pleaded no contest Friday to involuntary manslaughter.

Lorrie Thomas’ plea came four days before she was to go to trial on second-degree murder and other charges.

The body of 9-year-old Shylae Thomas was found inside a 33-gallon container in a storage unit in Vienna Township, about 65 miles northwest of Detroit, in April. Police have said the girl was starved to death.

Her body was covered in mothballs and stored for about six weeks before it was discovered.

Authorities claimed Thomas, 40, didn’t provide enough liquid nutrition through a permanent feeding tube in the girl’s stomach.

“There are certainly no winners in this situation,” prosecutor David Leyton said in a statement. “I am only gratified in knowing that we, as a community, were able to give Shylae’s life the respect it deserved in a court of law.”

While a no-contest plea is not a guilty plea, it is treated the same when determining a sentence. Defense lawyer Mark Clement predicted Thomas would get 3 1/2 to seven years in prison when she returns to court Jan. 11. The maximum punishment is 15 years.

Clement said Thomas received conflicting feeding instructions and didn’t intend to mistreat the child. But he said a plea deal was in her best interest.

“You’d have a jury that’s going to look at horrific photographs of a child that’s been paralyzed all her life,” Clement told The Associated Press by phone from Flint. “We were really concerned the jury would have no context to put that in, other than their own healthy children.”

Thomas was Shylae’s biological aunt before she adopted her in 2003. Court records show the girl’s short life was a tragic one.

Shylae nearly suffocated in her crib shortly after birth in 1999 and became a quadriplegic. In 2000, state child welfare workers stepped in when she broke a femur. Her biological mother claimed the girl fell from a sofa, but her doctor was skeptical.

“Shylae had a real rough go,” Leyton said.

Dr. Allecia Wilson, who performed an autopsy, said her death was caused by a combination of neglect, malnourishment and dehydration. She weighed just 33 pounds, and bones were sticking through her skin.

Thomas also pleaded no contest Friday to child abuse, tampering with evidence, welfare fraud and moving a dead body. She was receiving a state subsidy of nearly $3,000 a month to take care of a child with special needs and cashed checks even after Shylae’s death.

The Michigan Office of Children’s Ombudsman investigated the case and found there was nothing the state Department of Human Services should have done to prevent the death, investigator Mike Roxberry said Thursday.

The child’s body was discovered because a rookie child welfare worker investigating a complaint involving Shylae couldn’t find her at home.

Thomas initially told authorities a friend was driving the child to Virginia where the family planned to relocate.

North Carolina Child Protective Services illegal and unethical practices?

 

http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m12d2-North-Carolina-Child-Protective-Services-illegal–and-unethical-practices#

Do you know a child who has died during or after a DSS investigation in North Carolina?

Do you know a child who has died after reports of abuse where made to DSS? Did DSS ignore your report and fail to protect the child?

Do you know a child who has died in foster care or after being adopted from foster care due to child abuse or neglect?

Are you the family member of a child that died during or after DSS involvement?

Are you a family member of a child who has died as a result of DSS policy violations or inaction when it came to investigating reports of abuse?

 

To read more of this article please visit the above link…more importantly, if you have a complaint against North Carolina DSS, in any county…visit the above link and contact the reporter.

How system failed 15-year-old gunned down at bus stop

 

http://www.mcclatchydc.com/crime/story/75983.html

 

By Christopher D. Kirkpatrick | Charlotte Observer

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Tiffany Wright stood alone in the dark, waiting for her school bus.

It was just before 6 a.m., and her foster grandmother had walked back home to get Tiffany’s water bottle.

Tiffany, 15, was eight months pregnant but determined to stay on track in school. She wanted to be a lawyer. And after just a few weeks at Hawthorne High, she had impressed teachers as smart and ambitious, despite a difficult childhood.

At 5:51, Tiffany sent a text.

“Wheres the bus?”

One stop away, replied her friend, already on the bus.

At 5:55, as the bus lumbered toward Tiffany’s stop, people began calling police to report gunshots.

A school bus dispatcher radioed Tiffany’s bus driver: Change course – something’s happening ahead.

Tiffany lay dead in the road, shot in the head, that morning, Monday, Sept. 14. Her baby girl was delivered at the hospital and lived a week, but died Sunday.

Nobody’s charged in the killings, but police call Tiffany’s adoptive brother, Royce Mitchell, a “person of interest.”

In the months before she died, local agencies took steps aimed at stabilizing her home life and keeping her safe. But her story exposes failures in the system that was supposed to protect her.

Among the missteps:

•In February, a Mecklenburg court clerk appointed Mitchell as Tiffany’s temporary guardian — even though he was a felon who served time in federal prison. He was also tried in 2006 for murder, but found not guilty. And last year, he was accused of domestic violence, though the case was dismissed.

•In July, social workers told police that Mitchell, 36, might have committed statutory rape with Tiffany, but police didn’t question him about it for seven weeks, and didn’t charge him with the rape until after Tiffany was killed.

•This month, Mecklenburg social services failed to cut off communication between Tiffany, who was in foster care, and Mitchell, said a source close to the investigation.

On the day of Tiffany’s killing, Charlotte-Mecklenburg police jailed Mitchell for statutory rape and indecent liberties with a child, naming Tiffany as the victim.

Police defend their work, saying they followed the industry’s best practices – which takes time. Police didn’t feel a need to rush, they say, because they believed Tiffany was secure, hidden in a foster home with no threat to her safety.

Police say it’s hard to prove statutory rape: Of the 262 reports of statutory rape police received over three years, only 16 percent – 42 cases – were accepted by prosecutors.

Experts say statutory rape cases are complicated because they involve victims ages 13, 14 or 15 who often consider themselves voluntary participants in sex with someone at least six years older. So victims can be reluctant to help police. (this wasn’t Statutory Rape, this was incest…Mitchell was her adopted brother…My God learn the law in this state!)

But child advocates say in cases like Tiffany’s, police should act more aggressively. An immediate arrest sends a signal to a suspect and can persuade them to stay away from victims.

“The cases may be difficult to win, but they’re not difficult to charge,” says Brett Loftis of Charlotte’s Council for Children’s Rights.

UNCC criminologist Paul Friday says: “Often, nothing is done in these kinds of cases because they’re based on improper assumptions about the rationality of someone that age. But the minors are often unaware of disease, birth control and they can be exploited by someone.”

Adopted by foster mother

Tiffany first entered the child welfare system as a toddler in Buffalo, N.Y., when her mother lost custody.

She was adopted at 4 by her foster mother, Alma Wright, an older woman with eight grown children, who was excited about raising another child.

One of Wright’s grown sons was Royce Mitchell, a star quarterback in high school who’d gone on to play for a semi-pro team in Buffalo. But Mitchell also was indicted in 1999 as part of a drug trafficking ring and went to federal prison.

While he was in prison, authorities also charged Mitchell with an earlier murder, but a jury found him not guilty.

In 2004, Alma and Tiffany left Buffalo for North Carolina, settling near Kings Mountain. Tiffany made friends easily at school and church. She ran track at Bessemer City High School.

In 2007, Mitchell was released from prison and followed his mother to North Carolina.

But last fall, Alma Wright got sick. Friends at church helped out with Tiffany, inviting her for dinners and weekends. Tiffany spent time with Mitchell and his wife, too.

Alma Wright died Jan. 25, and Tiffany moved in with the Mitchells in Charlotte.

On Jan. 30, Royce Mitchell asked a Mecklenburg court to appoint him and his wife as Tiffany’s guardians.

On his application, he wrote: “We are seeking guardianship because we were requested to do so by Mrs. Alma Wright before she died.”

He wanted to transfer Tiffany to West Mecklenburg High School.

The court set a hearing for Feb. 5 and appointed a child advocate to study the situation and look after Tiffany’s best interests in court.

There’s no transcript of what happened in court, and the clerk who handled Tiffany’s case declined to discuss his decision.

Frederick Benson, a Mecklenburg assistant clerk of superior court, appointed Mitchell the temporary guardian of Tiffany’s welfare.

It’s unclear if Benson, a lawyer, knew about Mitchell’s criminal background. Court clerks are not required to perform background checks in guardianship cases, says Clerk of Superior Court Martha Curran. It’s up to each clerk to decide what checks are necessary, and they often rely on court-appointed child advocates to advise them in such cases.

Tiffany’s advocate, lawyer Martha Efird, declined to discuss her actions in the case.

It was in the weeks surrounding the Feb. 5 court hearing that Tiffany got pregnant, if hospital estimates are accurate.

But friends say Tiffany, who started at West Mecklenburg High in February, wouldn’t realize for four or five months that she was pregnant.

On Feb. 27, clerk of court Benson ordered DSS to conduct a “home study” of the Mitchell household. Officials won’t release their findings.

But Mitchell didn’t keep custody long, according to several of Tiffany’s friends in King’s Mountain.

In late March, Mitchell left Tiffany at a group home called With Friends in Gastonia, according to Marlene Jefferies and Cruceta Jeffeirs, two adult family friends who watched Tiffany grow up.

The group home wouldn’t confirm that. But the friends say the home reported to social services that Tiffany was abandoned. And she was soon back in foster care.

On March 31, Jeffeirs, a Shelby pastor, wrote a letter to Benson seeking custody of Tiffany: “My desire is to see Tiffany accomplish all the goals that she has set for herself and I believe she can do that in a stable environment with lots of guidance and love.”

DSS officials in Gaston and Mecklenburg won’t discuss Tiffany’s case or answer questions about what steps they took to protect her.

But friends and family say Tiffany was eventually placed in the care of foster parent Susan Barber, in a townhome off Mallard Creek Road in Derita.

By July, it was clear Tiffany was pregnant, friends say.

Barber tried to shield Tiffany from talking to those she believed might be bad influences, according to Tiffany’s cousin Brittany Page. But a source close to the investigation said Tiffany and Mitchell continued communicating.

Despite repeated attempts, Barber could not be reached.

As the school year approached, Tiffany prepared to change schools again, this time to Hawthorne High in Charlotte, which offers a special program for pregnant students.

Delayed investigation

On July 27, social workers reported to police that Royce Mitchell might have committed statutory rape with Tiffany.

It took eight days for a detective to look at the case, and three days more for it to be officially assigned to Teresa Johnson, a detective with CMPD’s youth crime and domestic violence unit.

Another 12 days passed before Johnson interviewed Tiffany.

It’s unclear when detective Johnson discovered Mitchell’s background, but it wasn’t enough to ramp up the investigation. Investigators say they believed Tiffany was safe in a foster home and faced no threats from Mitchell.

Police say their performance in the case followed procedure and met standards.

Police interview alleged victims immediately if the crime has occurred within the previous 72 hours, so they can gather evidence that may remain. But in cases like Tiffany’s – where months had elapsed since the alleged offense – police try to arrange just one interview when children and teen victims of abuse are involved.

Police acknowledge that strategy takes time but minimizes trauma and reduces the chances that young victims might be led into inaccurate testimony by repeated questioning.

Police also let such victims decide when they want to be interviewed at the county’s child-victim center called Pat’s Place. There, specially trained interviewers talk to victims, while social workers, psychologists, police and others watch from another room.

Tiffany chose an Aug. 19 interview. She didn’t say much during the formal interview. But later that day, Johnson won her trust and obtained enough information to move forward with the investigation.

No response from Mitchell

The next day, Aug. 20, the detective made her first call to Mitchell to ask him about the charge, she says. Johnson left a message and gave him a few days to call back.

When Mitchell didn’t respond, she made calls over the next two weeks to social workers and a federal probation officer to ask Mitchell to come talk to police.

Police say they didn’t immediately arrest him because they believed they could get better information if he talked voluntarily.

On Sept. 9, a federal probation official told Johnson that Mitchell was not coming in.

On Sept. 10, a team of social workers, police and other agencies held a standard follow-up meeting to discuss how to proceed in Tiffany’s case.

On Friday, Sept. 11, detective Johnson phoned Mitchell’s wife and left a message. She asked her to call back to discuss Tiffany, Johnson says, but didn’t give details of the rape allegation.

That Monday, Tiffany was shot and killed.

As emergency vehicles rolled to the scene, Tiffany’s school bus was diverted from its normal route. But the students could see flashing lights. Tiffany’s friends on the bus, Cimone Black and Tamia Corpening, began to worry.

“I kept texting her phone…,” Cimone said. Then she started calling, but all she got was voice mail.

The bus continued on to Hawthorne. For Tamia, the hourlong ride was excruciating.

Nobody said a word.

Staff writers Liz Chandler and Ely Portillo and researcher Maria David contributed.

Think It is Not About Money-The Case of Jack and Kathy Stratton

 

http://defeatdcs.blogspot.com/2009/11/think-it-is-not-about-money-case-of.html

 

The following was taken from the excellent http://www.couldyoubenext.com/website.

 

Jack and Kathy Stratton’s nine children have proved to be a veritable cash cow for the Mecklenburg County Department of Social Services. The Stratton children have been in foster care for nearly two years, ever since the DSS removed them from their home on charges of neglect. The Strattons have steadfastly denied the charges, and have been fighting to regain custody.During that time, the DSS, through federal funding, has been receiving $9,971.73 per month for the Stratton children, while paying out only $3,600. Net profit: $6,372 per month.

The rest of this story can be read at:

Defeat Children’s Services http://defeatdcs.blogspot.com/2009/11/think-it-is-not-about-money-case-of.html

Woman to be tried over girl found dead in storage

 

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5iX3IKWT5t9haQq7vk7pkPNDlwCuQD9BAA9N02

By DAVID RUNK (AP) – Oct 13, 2009

FLINT, Mich. — A woman has been ordered to stand trial on charges including second-degree murder in the death of her adopted quadriplegic daughter whose body was found in a storage unit.

Judge Tracy Collier-Nix of 68th District Court made her ruling on Tuesday.

Forty-year-old Lorrie Thomas of Flint will stand trial on six charges.

Authorities believe 9-year-old Shylae (sha-LAY) Thomas had been dead for six weeks when her body was discovered inside a 33-gallon container in a storage unit on April 22.

An autopsy indicated the cause of death was neglect, malnourishment and dehydration.

Defense attorney Mark Clement denies that Thomas, who was Shylae’s aunt, starved the girl.

Thomas is set to be arraigned Monday in circuit court.

A SUZANNE SHELL STORY ON LEGALLY KIDNAPPED

 

http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com/2009/10/suzanne-shell-story.html

 

WILL THEY ALLOW ANY “NUT JOB” TO ADOPT

 

http://stopcorruptdss.wordpress.com/2009/10/19/will-they-allow-any-nut-job-to-adopt-2/

Look at what this adoptive mother is saying about her adoptive children.   Do you honestly believe that a woman that can say these horrible things about these children is the right person to raise them?

My God with a mother like that, you don’t need enemies!!!

When people called her out about her comments on these children, this woman, Lisa Hill, began emailing, threatening, and harrassing them, while in the public face, claiming it was the other way around.  I know because I have been on the recieving end of her emails and am now suffering under constant and continuing harassment from her for reposting her blog posts.   

It is my belief that if you put public information on a PUBLIC FORUM then you best be prepared for the comments you recieve.  She posted these horrible things about children who from her own mouth have suffered enough. She gave no nevermind to how hurt they would be if they’d come across her derogratory comments about them or how others would treat them if they read the comments and recognized them from the pictures she posted.  Lisa Hill does not have these childrens best intrest at heart, just her own pity party, and it is my belief that CPS should immediately remove these children and place them in a home where they will recieve the love that they deserve…  not the tyrannical ravings of a woman who obviously does not know the true meaning of the word mother.   UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FORGIVENESS NO MATTER WHAT!

 This woman posted this and then after recieving negative comments thought that she could change her blog to private, I guess she forgot about this other site where she had posted it as well… I am posting the entire thing here, so she can’t deny that she posted it.

I have reposted Lisa Hill’s blog posts under the guidelines of the Fair Use Doctrine, I believe I have made it perfectly clear that I have done so, not only because I find them News Worthy, but also for the purpose of criticism.  I completely and totally disagree with the manner that she speaks of her adoptive children and find her attitude toward them alarming.  Ms. Hill has continually emailed me threatening and harassing me in an attempt to bully me into removing these posts, I refuse to do so. 

This is a non-profit, blog, used to educate people about CPS, Foster Care, Adoption and the deaths or injuries of children that have been in contact or in the custody of Child Protective Services.  Lisa Hill adopted her two older children from Foster Care and I seriously question CPS allowing her to do so after reading what she has posted about them.  I believe that Ms. Hills attitude toward these children is harmful to them and it is that belief that has made me refuse to remove this post.  People need to see first hand how some of the people who adopt foster children really feel about them.  Lisa Hill’s posts brings this issue fully to light and I feel they are  a prime example of why we need better screening for people who adopt children from foster care and the need for continued montoring after children are adopted from foster care.

Lisa Hill has emailed me accusing me of endangering her children by reposting her posts, I do not believe that my repost is  endangering her children, Ms. Hill is the one who posted all of this information on a public forum, I have merely reposted the information that she released to the public.  These are not private facts, but information that she herself made public on several different public forums, she did not have a concern in the world that predators might be able to use the information that she posted to find her children, but now she wants to say that I am endangering her children. 

As a matter of fact, my blog posting carries only the information that she, herself,  posted on the wellness blog site.  On her other blog, where she also posted this, she has the state she lives in,  the town, the names and ages of the children, her husband’s name and occupation and even more pictures of these children and the other two.  That information can also still be accessed by anyone wishing to do so, I have choosen not to publish that information here.

My point is her issue with my reposting her offensive posts has nothing to do with endangering her children, but more to do with the fact that she has now realized how horrible what she wrote about these children really is and wishing to hide the proof of it.  Ms. Hill refuses to accept the responsiblity for her actions and has instead rage a campain against those who have stood up to her and cried foul for what I can only percieve as resentment, anger, and an intense dislike toward the children that she adopted.

She is claiming that these post are fake…which is an outright lie!  I would never post anything that was not the truth, nor would I fake posts!

I will be posting Lisa Hills emails to me at a later date.

 

Fair Use

 

http://www.citmedialaw.org/legal-guide/fair-use

 

“[T]he fair use of a copyrighted work, including such use by reproduction in copies or phonorecords or by any other means specified by that section, for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching (including multiple copies for classroom use), scholarship, or research, is not an infringement of copyright. In determining whether the use made of a work in any particular case is a fair use the factors to be considered shall include –

the purpose and character of the use, including whether such use is of a commercial nature or is for nonprofit educational purposes;

the nature of the copyrighted work;

the amount and substantiality of the portion used in relation to the copyrighted work as a whole;

and the effect of the use upon the potential market for or value of the copyrighted work.”

 Before you read these posts…check out the safety assessment that is filled out when the DSS of my state investigates the family

Pay special attention to section A  1 and 2…according to our own guidelines the cruel manner in which Ms. Hill speaks of her children is continued abuse….

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Nut job

http://stanford.wellsphere.com/weight-loss-article/nut-job/810361  SHE HAS REMOVED THIS POST, BUT YOU CAN STILL FIND IT AT:

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm

Yep. I am a bad mother. I regret ever adopting my older two kids. They are soooo hard to raise and they came withsooooo many problems. They are emotionally unstable, they lie, steal, manipulate, everything ALL DAY EVERYDAY and parenting them brings me no joy what-so-ever. I always caution people against adopting older kids from foster care unless they are older and finished with child rearing and can focus on a loveless relationship and have the time and energy to run their house like a prison. We were lied to about our kids and not given their files until AFTER their adoption was final. I was so stupid because I thought a loving home and stability would “help” these kids. WRONG. We have had them for 4 years (got them at ages 5 and 6) and they only get better at lying. We just found out today that our now 10 year old has been stealing from us. She is the one everything thinks is so sweet and innocent but they don’t know her. So today Andi stole $20 from us to buy a little thumb sized stuffed animal from a girl at school. Nice. We live penny to penny and yet she feels it’s ok to do this. I noticed money missing and I was yelling at my husband all day telling him that he must have taken it because I didn’t and we weren’t going to have enough money to get by until Friday when he gets paid. Then, the kids came home from school and Miguel told me Andi found a $20 bill in the middle of a bush on the way to school this morning. After interrogation, he admitted what she did and also gave her up about stealing things from the kids at school then SELLING THEM to other people. Great. I am the mother of a 10 year old slanger in the 5 th grade. Oh so proud. NOTHING we do gets to them. No punishments, no rewards, NOTHING drives them to be better people. That’s part of RAD. (Reactive Attachment Disorder) No conscience. I feel like shit because I imagine all the time that something happens that will send them back to their birth mom and how great life would be. From sun up to sun down I have to deal with all their crap. Calls from the school about theft, lying, trying to hurt our animals, last night I became overwhelmed and binged. I felt like such a failure because I turned to the only way to cope I know how. I wanted the world to stop for a moment and when I binge it does. For me, it is not our fault they are this way. We did not abuse or neglect them. Their birth mom did and some of their foster parents but we are left cleaning up the crap forever. Where is the joy? I try soooo hard to give them a normal life but it’s like they don’t want to accept that. All the RAD specialists say there is nothing we can do but try to “condition” them to do the right thing by habit but not because they know it’s the right thing. Since they were neglected so bad during their formative years before 3, their brains didn’t form naturally in that way and they are incapable of ever bonding or feeling empathy. I guess the criminal part of their brains developed just fine because they are great at all that. You would NEVER know it if you met them. they are MASTERS at putting on a fake front. EVERYONE is always telling me how good they are at church and school until stiff comes up missing… Give them a while and they will start to show their true colors. I feel soooo guilty thinking the things I do because I know it is not their fault for what happened to them to make them this way, but I resent being lied to by the state of California and now I am “stuck” with this situation. Everyday this is my existence. I am extra grateful for my other two kids because at least I get the good with the bad. I get to know what it’s like to have a child of mine love me and feel empathy for others. Yes, the kids are in therapy and s ee the therapist at school. I did get a notice from the school that the problems they have are far beyond what they deal with. Duh. Sometimes I find myself looking forward to when they are 12 and we can put them in a boot camp or group home. I look forward to peace. I look forward to some normalcy. That is, if they make it to 12 without going to Juvenal hall from finally stealing from the wrong person or place. Then i feel guilty for thinking those things. Thanks for listening to my vent. I don’t talk about this much because it is so embarrassing, but it is my reality. No judgements please. Unless you have a kid with RAD, you would not understand.

 I have decided to remove her children’s picture, I have left it up here long enough to make the point of what she did by releasing it.  That was my point.   Not only did she speak so horribly of her children, she released their pictures so everyone would know exactly who she was talking about.  I think that in itself shows the lack of concern Ms. Hill has for her children’s safety and well-being.   

Pic of the day… they look so normal don’t they?

 

Crazy Dayz

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm

I LOVE my kids school. So this morning I marched Andi right down to her principals office to tell her that Andi has been stealing from school. Her principal let her have it and is going to decide if she should stay the class Treasurer. Her principal and the entire school knows what my older kids are like so they are very understanding. I won’t lie, it feels good to be validated. as we were leaving, she said to me she can’t imagine how hard it is for us at home with my kids. Just to hear someone say that makes me feel better. To all of you, thanks for the support yesterday. There were about one of you who chastised me for my OWN FEELINGS on my own site, but again I remind you, if you don’t like it don’t read it. This is my safe place. I had SOOO many e-mails from people who have either gone through this or know someone who has adopted older children from foster care and gone though the SAME THING and they appreciate my honesty. There is nothing I want more in the world than for my older kids to change, to have a chance at life, but I should have been told the truth and been allowed to make an adoption decision based on TRUTH.This one person kept saying we chose them not the other way around. Not exactly. I was their daycare provider and they had already had TWO failed adoptions. They were placed with us as a kin placement on an emergency basis because their pre -adoptive mother wanted them out of the house asap. It was a Friday night. Then they kept dragging their feet about placing them somewhere else. They lied to us about their past and assured us that once they had stability all would be well so we agreed that our home would be better than being raised in a group home which is where they were headed at 5 and 6 years old! Just like they didn’t ask for their life circumstance, I did not ask for this either. In that way we are in the same boat. At what point is it enough? when they burn down our house? Miguel has already used knives to cut holes in his mattress so he could hide all the things he steals in there. How long until that knife lands somewhere else? They are both master manipulators and I am not surprised that my 10 year old daughter had a criminal enterprise going on at school. I will NEVER apologize for my own feelings. I will never hold back here because I committed to myself to be real. I KNOW it’s out on the Internet. That is the point. Maybe someone else out there is dealing with this or thinking of adopting older children and it can help them. This is my life. My day to day and I will purge on here how I want to and whenever I damn well want to. :)

 

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm Brendahas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”:I’m going to report you tomorrow to CPS. I’m just giving you fair warning so don’t be surprised when they come knocking at your door. I know this won’t get published and that’s okay. It’s to you personally. Thank God I have friends who found out the town you live in. This article has been copied and pasted so you can’t deny writing it. They deserve so much better than you.Then she wrote this…Brendahas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”: I’m crazy? Lady, you’re saying you hate your kids and I’m crazy? I have 5 children plus an adopted child and I love them all. You need to be reported. Do those kids a favor and get them the hell out of your house. You are off your rocker. I cannot believe the things you said about these poor children. They deserve to be with someone who can take up the time needed for them and apparently that’s not you. I seriously doubt that CPS will do a damn thing cos you’re a cash cow for them but it will make me feel better. I just hope those kids don’t see what you wrote. You’re a horrible mother and not much of a human being either. $20 is more important to you than them. Go buy yourself a pizza or ice cream, wolf it down and maybe you’ll feel a little bit better!This lady has been leaving me crazy comments ALL night. Here is her profile…http://www.blogger.com/profile/14453734054168347425As if you can call CPS because someone is frustrated with their emotionallydisturbed children. :) YEs! Call the police while you are at it! Oh no! How dare I provide a loving home, safety, a life, a family. Yes! Call CPS! Their case workers will LOVE this. (You know, this is funny… their case workers are FROM CPS! lol ) AND they know exactly how I feel and are trying to get family therapy approved through the state! YES crazy lady. While your at it, get some therapy for yourself. It is VERY sad to have to stalk an adoptive mother who through thick and thin IS raising two children that were adopted from foster care. YEs! Call CPS and tell them that I am a horrible person for living up to my commitments to them and giving them ALL I HAVE EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE. They will be mortified! For sure they will place them with a better woman than I. Maybe someone who beats them, who neglects them, who doesn’t hold them, care for them, take them to church, someone who will not be there team mom for all their sports, or someone who doesn’t take them to school early so they can be in choir or act as a campaign manager so they can get elected to their student councils. Yes. I am worthless and they are MUCH better off in foster care. You sound like a crazy dumb ass. Go stalk someone else. I’m sure CPS will bend over backwards for you after reading all YOUR blogs. hahaha!Geez. This blog world really brings out the crazies. I guess I should have guessed that would happen with such a hard topic, but I will never hide from my feelings and I will always share my hardships in hopes that what I go through might help someone else.

 

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm She writes…

lilibithas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”: Oh boy are you in big trouble , tell us how much you get for the subsidy monthly ?? and did they come to you already drugged ?? are they coded ?? Got you number and your location , this has going out to the media too , also the gov and the Social workers union and many news orgs else , you are a monster why did you take these kids ?? lady if those children are not removed and put in a safe and nuturing home soon , there is going to be hell to pay , while its true that CPS lies you cannot cast blame you adopted them , have you ever heard of the Casey foundation ?? have you ever gotten off your fat ass and got help or did you just do a few hours at the CPS seminar …..we got you you are a disgrace to the familys that do love children and not eat up the money you get , This is gone viral and its too late to shut it down , criminal charges against you for fraud and SLOTH have been set in motion ……you stole those kids and you have the nerve to speak out against the bios , HMM thought CPS didnt tell you anything …..this has already been printed out and on its way , you had better not hurt those children , nancy grace is going to have a feild day with you to if something happens , make sure you stop eating for a while and make sure the kids are not hurt , the police have been alerted too . no copywrite laws broken here

Wow. Someone is off their meds. lol Here is her bio… http://www.blogger.com/profile/06513141679326716598Here is her e-mail… lizzianthus007@aol.com

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Posted Sep 24 2009 10:45pm

So those two ladies who are stalking me have gotten out of control. The lilbit one is a lady who lost custody of her daughter while she was in rehab so she is against ALL adoptive parents. She has been leaving VERY threatening e-mails saying she knows where my kids go to school etc so I am going to go private. I have her contact info from her blog and plan to call her local police if she sends me another e-mail, but if anything this experience has shown me what whackadoos there are out in the world and I need to be more careful about our safety. The Brenda one has been leaving comments ALL night and according to my feed which gives me her contact info she has been checking my site every 5 minutes since yesterday. All these women are women who have had children taken from CPS. The crazy Brenda says my kids were stolen from their bio mom. This lady sold my kids for drugs but Brenda believes in all her mind that they are better off with her. It looks as though there was a reason for all these women to lose their kids. I would shutter at the thought of them being able to provide a safe home when they are obviouslymentally unstable. My follower thing says I have almost 200 followers and blogger will only let you invite 100 so I will take the 1st 100 that comment here. (Not the crazies.) lol see you on the private side folks!

20 spots left for an invite! :)

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Posted Sep 24 2009 10:45pm

Please don’t forget that if you don’t have your e-mail on your profile, I can’t send you the invite without it so please e-mail me with it asap. See you there! :) P.s. The Crazy Brenda lady is involved with a group of people who have had their kids taken away that believe that ALL adopted kids should be with their bio parents no matter what the abuse. They are a bunch of crazy people who no doubt lost their kids for good reasons. I am sooo sorry they found their way here but you all should know so you can protect your blogs. Her info and the links to all her coo-coo blogs are in the posts below. These nuts have been sending AWFUL posts that I will not publish and now will no longer read. I shutter to think what would have happened to their kids if they still had them. I will close up shop so we are all protected. God help any children those people have. I now feel MUCH better knowing that my kids are with me instead of live wires like that.

Lisa Hill

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BioI am a 32 year old wife and a mother to four beautiful adopted children. I am struggling with a food/binge eating addiction and I am disclosing all of my struggles and victories on my site in order to receive and offer support.

Look at what this adoptive mother is saying about her adoptive children.   Do you honestly believe that a woman that can say these horrible things about these children is the right person to raise them?

My God with a mother like that, you don’t need enemies!!!

When people called her out about her comments on these children, this woman, Lisa Hill, began emailing, threatening, and harrassing them, while in the public face, claiming it was the other way around.  I know because I have been on the recieving end of her emails and am now suffering under constant and continuing harassment from her for reposting her blog posts.   

It is my belief that if you put public information on a PUBLIC FORUM then you best be prepared for the comments you recieve.  She posted these horrible things about children who from her own mouth have suffered enough. She gave no nevermind to how hurt they would be if they’d come across her derogratory comments about them or how others would treat them if they read the comments and recognized them from the pictures she posted.  Lisa Hill does not have these childrens best intrest at heart, just her own pity party, and it is my belief that CPS should immediately remove these children and place them in a home where they will recieve the love that they deserve…  not the tyrannical ravings of a woman who obviously does not know the true meaning of the word mother.   UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FORGIVENESS NO MATTER WHAT!

 This woman posted this and then after recieving negative comments thought that she could change her blog to private, I guess she forgot about this other site where she had posted it as well… I am posting the entire thing here, so she can’t deny that she posted it.

I have reposted Lisa Hill’s blog posts under the guidelines of the Fair Use Doctrine, I believe I have made it perfectly clear that I have done so, not only because I find them News Worthy, but also for the purpose of criticism.  I completely and totally disagree with the manner that she speaks of her adoptive children and find her attitude toward them alarming.  Ms. Hill has continually emailed me threatening and harassing me in an attempt to bully me into removing these posts, I refuse to do so. 

This is a non-profit, blog, used to educate people about CPS, Foster Care, Adoption and the deaths or injuries of children that have been in contact or in the custody of Child Protective Services.  Lisa Hill adopted her two older children from Foster Care and I seriously question CPS allowing her to do so after reading what she has posted about them.  I believe that Ms. Hills attitude toward these children is harmful to them and it is that belief that has made me refuse to remove this post.  People need to see first hand how some of the people who adopt foster children really feel about them.  Lisa Hill’s posts brings this issue fully to light and I feel they are  a prime example of why we need better screening for people who adopt children from foster care and the need for continued montoring after children are adopted from foster care.

Lisa Hill has emailed me accusing me of endangering her children by reposting her posts, I do not believe that my repost is  endangering her children, Ms. Hill is the one who posted all of this information on a public forum, I have merely reposted the information that she released to the public.  These are not private facts, but information that she herself made public on several different public forums, she did not have a concern in the world that predators might be able to use the information that she posted to find her children, but now she wants to say that I am endangering her children. 

As a matter of fact, my blog posting carries only the information that she, herself,  posted on the wellness blog site.  On her other blog, where she also posted this, she has the state she lives in,  the town, the names and ages of the children, her husband’s name and occupation and even more pictures of these children and the other two.  That information can also still be accessed by anyone wishing to do so, I have choosen not to publish that information here.

My point is her issue with my reposting her offensive posts has nothing to do with endangering her children, but more to do with the fact that she has now realized how horrible what she wrote about these children really is and wishing to hide the proof of it.  Ms. Hill refuses to accept the responsiblity for her actions and has instead rage a campain against those who have stood up to her and cried foul for what I can only percieve as resentment, anger, and an intense dislike toward the children that she adopted.

She is claiming that these post are fake…which is an outright lie!  I would never post anything that was not the truth, nor would I fake posts!

I will be posting Lisa Hills emails to me at a later date.

 

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Nut job

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm

Yep. I am a bad mother. I regret ever adopting my older two kids. They are soooo hard to raise and they came withsooooo many problems. They are emotionally unstable, they lie, steal, manipulate, everything ALL DAY EVERYDAY and parenting them brings me no joy what-so-ever. I always caution people against adopting older kids from foster care unless they are older and finished with child rearing and can focus on a loveless relationship and have the time and energy to run their house like a prison. We were lied to about our kids and not given their files until AFTER their adoption was final. I was so stupid because I thought a loving home and stability would “help” these kids. WRONG. We have had them for 4 years (got them at ages 5 and 6) and they only get better at lying. We just found out today that our now 10 year old has been stealing from us. She is the one everything thinks is so sweet and innocent but they don’t know her. So today Andi stole $20 from us to buy a little thumb sized stuffed animal from a girl at school. Nice. We live penny to penny and yet she feels it’s ok to do this. I noticed money missing and I was yelling at my husband all day telling him that he must have taken it because I didn’t and we weren’t going to have enough money to get by until Friday when he gets paid. Then, the kids came home from school and Miguel told me Andi found a $20 bill in the middle of a bush on the way to school this morning. After interrogation, he admitted what she did and also gave her up about stealing things from the kids at school then SELLING THEM to other people. Great. I am the mother of a 10 year old slanger in the 5 th grade. Oh so proud. NOTHING we do gets to them. No punishments, no rewards, NOTHING drives them to be better people. That’s part of RAD. (Reactive Attachment Disorder) No conscience. I feel like shit because I imagine all the time that something happens that will send them back to their birth mom and how great life would be. From sun up to sun down I have to deal with all their crap. Calls from the school about theft, lying, trying to hurt our animals, last night I became overwhelmed and binged. I felt like such a failure because I turned to the only way to cope I know how. I wanted the world to stop for a moment and when I binge it does. For me, it is not our fault they are this way. We did not abuse or neglect them. Their birth mom did and some of their foster parents but we are left cleaning up the crap forever. Where is the joy? I try soooo hard to give them a normal life but it’s like they don’t want to accept that. All the RAD specialists say there is nothing we can do but try to “condition” them to do the right thing by habit but not because they know it’s the right thing. Since they were neglected so bad during their formative years before 3, their brains didn’t form naturally in that way and they are incapable of ever bonding or feeling empathy. I guess the criminal part of their brains developed just fine because they are great at all that. You would NEVER know it if you met them. they are MASTERS at putting on a fake front. EVERYONE is always telling me how good they are at church and school until stiff comes up missing… Give them a while and they will start to show their true colors. I feel soooo guilty thinking the things I do because I know it is not their fault for what happened to them to make them this way, but I resent being lied to by the state of California and now I am “stuck” with this situation. Everyday this is my existence. I am extra grateful for my other two kids because at least I get the good with the bad. I get to know what it’s like to have a child of mine love me and feel empathy for others. Yes, the kids are in therapy and s ee the therapist at school. I did get a notice from the school that the problems they have are far beyond what they deal with. Duh. Sometimes I find myself looking forward to when they are 12 and we can put them in a boot camp or group home. I look forward to peace. I look forward to some normalcy. That is, if they make it to 12 without going to Juvenal hall from finally stealing from the wrong person or place. Then i feel guilty for thinking those things. Thanks for listening to my vent. I don’t talk about this much because it is so embarrassing, but it is my reality. No judgements please. Unless you have a kid with RAD, you would not understand.

I have decided to remove her children’s picture, I have left it up here long enough to make the point of what she did by releasing it.  That was my point.   Not only did she speak so horribly of her children, she released their pictures so everyone would know exactly who she was talking about.  I think that in itself shows the lack of concern Ms. Hill has for her children’s safety and well-being.  

 

Pic of the day… they look so normal don’t they?

 

Crazy Dayz

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm

I LOVE my kids school. So this morning I marched Andi right down to her principals office to tell her that Andi has been stealing from school. Her principal let her have it and is going to decide if she should stay the class Treasurer. Her principal and the entire school knows what my older kids are like so they are very understanding. I won’t lie, it feels good to be validated. as we were leaving, she said to me she can’t imagine how hard it is for us at home with my kids. Just to hear someone say that makes me feel better. To all of you, thanks for the support yesterday. There were about one of you who chastised me for my OWN FEELINGS on my own site, but again I remind you, if you don’t like it don’t read it. This is my safe place. I had SOOO many e-mails from people who have either gone through this or know someone who has adopted older children from foster care and gone though the SAME THING and they appreciate my honesty. There is nothing I want more in the world than for my older kids to change, to have a chance at life, but I should have been told the truth and been allowed to make an adoption decision based on TRUTH.This one person kept saying we chose them not the other way around. Not exactly. I was their daycare provider and they had already had TWO failed adoptions. They were placed with us as a kin placement on an emergency basis because their pre -adoptive mother wanted them out of the house asap. It was a Friday night. Then they kept dragging their feet about placing them somewhere else. They lied to us about their past and assured us that once they had stability all would be well so we agreed that our home would be better than being raised in a group home which is where they were headed at 5 and 6 years old! Just like they didn’t ask for their life circumstance, I did not ask for this either. In that way we are in the same boat. At what point is it enough? when they burn down our house? Miguel has already used knives to cut holes in his mattress so he could hide all the things he steals in there. How long until that knife lands somewhere else? They are both master manipulators and I am not surprised that my 10 year old daughter had a criminal enterprise going on at school. I will NEVER apologize for my own feelings. I will never hold back here because I committed to myself to be real. I KNOW it’s out on the Internet. That is the point. Maybe someone else out there is dealing with this or thinking of adopting older children and it can help them. This is my life. My day to day and I will purge on here how I want to and whenever I damn well want to. :)

 

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm Brendahas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”:I’m going to report you tomorrow to CPS. I’m just giving you fair warning so don’t be surprised when they come knocking at your door. I know this won’t get published and that’s okay. It’s to you personally. Thank God I have friends who found out the town you live in. This article has been copied and pasted so you can’t deny writing it. They deserve so much better than you.Then she wrote this…Brendahas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”: I’m crazy? Lady, you’re saying you hate your kids and I’m crazy? I have 5 children plus an adopted child and I love them all. You need to be reported. Do those kids a favor and get them the hell out of your house. You are off your rocker. I cannot believe the things you said about these poor children. They deserve to be with someone who can take up the time needed for them and apparently that’s not you. I seriously doubt that CPS will do a damn thing cos you’re a cash cow for them but it will make me feel better. I just hope those kids don’t see what you wrote. You’re a horrible mother and not much of a human being either. $20 is more important to you than them. Go buy yourself a pizza or ice cream, wolf it down and maybe you’ll feel a little bit better!This lady has been leaving me crazy comments ALL night. Here is her profile…http://www.blogger.com/profile/14453734054168347425As if you can call CPS because someone is frustrated with their emotionallydisturbed children. :) YEs! Call the police while you are at it! Oh no! How dare I provide a loving home, safety, a life, a family. Yes! Call CPS! Their case workers will LOVE this. (You know, this is funny… their case workers are FROM CPS! lol ) AND they know exactly how I feel and are trying to get family therapy approved through the state! YES crazy lady. While your at it, get some therapy for yourself. It is VERY sad to have to stalk an adoptive mother who through thick and thin IS raising two children that were adopted from foster care. YEs! Call CPS and tell them that I am a horrible person for living up to my commitments to them and giving them ALL I HAVE EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE. They will be mortified! For sure they will place them with a better woman than I. Maybe someone who beats them, who neglects them, who doesn’t hold them, care for them, take them to church, someone who will not be there team mom for all their sports, or someone who doesn’t take them to school early so they can be in choir or act as a campaign manager so they can get elected to their student councils. Yes. I am worthless and they are MUCH better off in foster care. You sound like a crazy dumb ass. Go stalk someone else. I’m sure CPS will bend over backwards for you after reading all YOUR blogs. hahaha!Geez. This blog world really brings out the crazies. I guess I should have guessed that would happen with such a hard topic, but I will never hide from my feelings and I will always share my hardships in hopes that what I go through might help someone else.

 

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Posted Sep 23 2009 11:11pm She writes…

lilibithas left a new comment on your post “Nut job”: Oh boy are you in big trouble , tell us how much you get for the subsidy monthly ?? and did they come to you already drugged ?? are they coded ?? Got you number and your location , this has going out to the media too , also the gov and the Social workers union and many news orgs else , you are a monster why did you take these kids ?? lady if those children are not removed and put in a safe and nuturing home soon , there is going to be hell to pay , while its true that CPS lies you cannot cast blame you adopted them , have you ever heard of the Casey foundation ?? have you ever gotten off your fat ass and got help or did you just do a few hours at the CPS seminar …..we got you you are a disgrace to the familys that do love children and not eat up the money you get , This is gone viral and its too late to shut it down , criminal charges against you for fraud and SLOTH have been set in motion ……you stole those kids and you have the nerve to speak out against the bios , HMM thought CPS didnt tell you anything …..this has already been printed out and on its way , you had better not hurt those children , nancy grace is going to have a feild day with you to if something happens , make sure you stop eating for a while and make sure the kids are not hurt , the police have been alerted too . no copywrite laws broken here

Wow. Someone is off their meds. lol Here is her bio… http://www.blogger.com/profile/06513141679326716598Here is her e-mail… lizzianthus007@aol.com

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Posted Sep 24 2009 10:45pm

So those two ladies who are stalking me have gotten out of control. The lilbit one is a lady who lost custody of her daughter while she was in rehab so she is against ALL adoptive parents. She has been leaving VERY threatening e-mails saying she knows where my kids go to school etc so I am going to go private. I have her contact info from her blog and plan to call her local police if she sends me another e-mail, but if anything this experience has shown me what whackadoos there are out in the world and I need to be more careful about our safety. The Brenda one has been leaving comments ALL night and according to my feed which gives me her contact info she has been checking my site every 5 minutes since yesterday. All these women are women who have had children taken from CPS. The crazy Brenda says my kids were stolen from their bio mom. This lady sold my kids for drugs but Brenda believes in all her mind that they are better off with her. It looks as though there was a reason for all these women to lose their kids. I would shutter at the thought of them being able to provide a safe home when they are obviouslymentally unstable. My follower thing says I have almost 200 followers and blogger will only let you invite 100 so I will take the 1st 100 that comment here. (Not the crazies.) lol see you on the private side folks!

20 spots left for an invite! :)

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Posted Sep 24 2009 10:45pm

Please don’t forget that if you don’t have your e-mail on your profile, I can’t send you the invite without it so please e-mail me with it asap. See you there! :) P.s. The Crazy Brenda lady is involved with a group of people who have had their kids taken away that believe that ALL adopted kids should be with their bio parents no matter what the abuse. They are a bunch of crazy people who no doubt lost their kids for good reasons. I am sooo sorry they found their way here but you all should know so you can protect your blogs. Her info and the links to all her coo-coo blogs are in the posts below. These nuts have been sending AWFUL posts that I will not publish and now will no longer read. I shutter to think what would have happened to their kids if they still had them. I will close up shop so we are all protected. God help any children those people have. I now feel MUCH better knowing that my kids are with me instead of live wires like that.

Lisa Hill

Lisa Hill

 Top HealthBlogger for the Weight loss Community Blog: http://losewithlisa.blogspot.com/ I am a 32 year old wife and a mother to four beautiful adopted children. I am struggling with a… Full Bio

BioI am a 32 year old wife and a mother to four beautiful adopted children. I am struggling with a food/binge eating addiction and I am disclosing all of my struggles and victories on my site in order to receive and offer support.

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